|
| Being SINGLE...
The Art of Contentment. For most of us, being single will be more of a phase than a final destination. This is the best place to practice the art of contentment. Someday, I'm sure most of us will fall in love and get married. But the thing is, love will always be tested. Someone more handsome, beautiful, more charming, richer, funnier, sweeter would come along. If you have not practiced the art of contentment as a single person, chances are you would be tempted to want that and not cherish your chosen one. Practicing the Art of Contentment as a single person means that you take what life gives you, good or bad, you're willing to see it through. It means you don't walk away everytime things get tough because it builds in you patience, perseverance, understanding and a hundred different virtues that people in a hurry will never have. Being single means you would find how it feels to be alone thus, allowing you to cherish every moment you spend with your chosen one. The art of contentment means you wouldn't mind if life had to make you wait for so long to find the love of your life, because you know that the waiting would only make the finding much sweeter.
Being single is a time of your life when you can get to know yourself better. You can pursue different interest and passions without having to ask another person's approval. It is a phase when you can keep focus on other things, discover your potentials and talents, and see yourself become more than what you expect to be. Allow yourself to surprise you. Stop wasting precious energy trying to figure out why you're still romantically unattached. It's all in the mind. Take the time to go see your friends, spend time with your family, do charity work and you will realize that you are not, and never for one moment, was alone. Try to get to know yourself first before you try to get to know other people. To be truly loved means to be known and accepted for who you are. How do you expect other people to know you and to love you, when you don't know who and what you really are?
Sometimes the dilemmas we face are not between what is absolutely bad and absolutely good. Sometimes, it's between good and best. Treat this stage of your life as a phase to evaluate who is good for you and who is best for you. Sometimes, you won't hear music, or feel magic to know who's best for you. The heart just knows and it doesn't need any romantically charged scenario to decide on the matter. Trust in your heart, and trust that time will eventually lead you to, not to the perfect partner, but to the most suitable partner for you. Being single is a phase of life that we need to be thankful for, because being single means our hearts have yet to choose the best one for us.
Take your time, the world will wait. Being married doesn't guarantee that it will make your life happy. It doesn't guarantee anything at all. Sometimes, it only brings two miserable people together only to make their life even more miserable. Without the right intention, the emotional maturity, financial security and of course, unwavering love, you're better off unattached.
Living Life. Don't put your life on hold for Mr. and Mrs. Right, but don't let it waste away with Mr.or Mrs. Wrong. Life is about things that you do and happen to you everyday. It's not about the things that could have happened but never did, or things that you think would happen in the future. Live life now. Live it to the fullest and stop beating yourself up, trying to be perfect on a Saturday night date. Allow life to surprise you with it's most wonderful blessings | | |
| Hailey Madelyn Sanchez Hahn
 | | |
| <<<< why does it hurt >>>>
Why does it hurt to see you everyday....
because its not me your with
Why does it hurt to see your picture...
because i know i will no longer be in them with you
Why does it hurt to hear your name...
because i know i will never speak that name again
Why does it hurt to walk past your room...
because i know i will never enter it again
Why does it hurt to see you with your friends...
because its something we will never be....
FRIENDS
Why does it hurt...
why does it hurt ( PART 2 )
Why does it hurt when you treat me like this?
Don't you remember our very first kiss!!!
It was sweet and passionate, something I could never resist.
Why does it hurt when you treat me likes this?
You act as if i don't exist.
Why can't you stop hurting me like this?
Why MUST you persist???
| | |
| 
PROMISE......
I promise I will be your strength
Whenever you fall weak
When you cannot find the words
I will be your voice to speak
I promise I will be your eyes
When you cannot see
I will be here forever
If you'll be with me
I promise I will be your hands
Whenever you cannot feel
When you want to hear the truth
I will tell you what is real
I promise I will be your ears
When you cannot hear
I will be your dream catcher
And chase away your every fear
I promise I will be your smile
When you have to frown
I will always cheer you up
When you're feeling down
I promise I will keep you sturdy
When your not feeling safe
And when your feeling insecure
I will give you faith
I promise to listen
Whenever you need to talk
I will stay with you
When you want to walk
I promise to tell you
No lies, just what is true
And I will always have a shoulder
For you to cry unto
I promise I will hold you
When you need someone
I will not interfere
When you need to get work done
I promise Ill always love you
No matter what we go through
I'll be your guardian angel
This is my promise to you.
2: LEE FRO: KIMMIE | | |
|
WHY...... I LOVE YOU
Sometimes at night, when I look to the sky, I start thinking of you and then ask myself “why”, “Why do I love you?” I think and smile, because I know the list could run on for miles.
The whisper of your voice, the warmth of your touch, so many little things make me love you so much.
The way you support me, even my silly notions. The way that you care and show such devotion, the way that your kiss, fills me with desire, and how you hold me with the warmth of a fire. The way your eyes shine when you look at me, lost with you forever is were I want to be. The way that I feel when your by my side. A sense of completion and overflowing pride.
The dreams that I dream, that all involve you, the possibilities I see, the things we can do. How you finish the puzzle that lies inside my heart. How deep in my soul, you are a very important part.
I could go on for days, telling of what I feel, but all you really must know is... my love for you is real.
| | |
|
|
